Adoption, a subject that truly matters to me. — If there is one thing that makes me very angry it is when someone says that there is something more special about a biological bond or blood lines. — That’s one of those things I just can’t stand… when adopted children aren’t quite good enough.
If how much someone loves another is hindered by something as insignificant as that, well that’s just sad. — How do they think that makes an adopted child feel? — Oh, you’re loved, but there is still nothing like having your very own. — News Flash, that child is someone’s very own, adopted or not. — Don’t make them feel like they are second best. That’s not cool.
I say all this from the viewpoint of someone who wants to adopt children. Someone that has a heart that could care less about blood relation & more about genuine love. — Why can’t everyone see that? — Adopting a child means having a child of your very own. An innocent little one that looks to you for love, kindness, and acceptance… just like any child. — Why are they a last resort or don’t compare to others? — I just don’t understand it.
I’ve even heard someone that adopted a child say they almost didn’t because their family wasn’t sure how they would feel about it. — What negativity is there to feel? I don’t understand. If your love stops at “not biologically related” then you have a heart problem.. something is wrong there.
I don’t think it is something I will ever understand. To be honest, I don’t care too either. I just want the same for all children. I want the same kind of love for adopted children that others get. — Don’t get me wrong I know that there are so many wonderful families that have adopted, loved, and taken care of so many children. I think that’s amazing. I think it’s beautiful. I’m not referring to them. — It’s just the people that think there is something more special about the biological factor. —
I love my husband more than anyone in this world, next to God Himself. There is no biological bond there, (thank God, cause that’d be weird for sure, lol) however I have a love for him like I don’t have for anyone else. — My children will be the same way someday. — They may not be blood related to either of us, but they will be ours. They will have all of our love. — There will be a very special bond there. The kind only parents have with children. — Blood lines, however, will have nothing to do with that. — Because you don’t need them to love your child.
I just wish everyone looked at it the same way, that’s all. 🙂